So are you in love or not? Is this the question you keep asking yourself on a constant basis? Does it bug you all day and night? You see often we think that we might or might not be in love but are not sure. Sometimes it's not love but mere attraction towards a certain individual. Love is always a deeper emotion and goes beyond the initial attraction we feel towards an individual. Therefore how can one find out whether he or she is truly in love or not? Read on to discover some of the most mind blowing ways using which you will find out whether you are truly in love or not......
Are you confused?- Often when you get a gut feeling that you might or might not be in love then it is definitely not love. Remember that when it comes to love a maybe means no. And if you are not able to decide and are having a strong gut feeling of maybe then it's not love rather it is attraction.
Think about the long term- Ask yourself whether you can stay with this person in the long term. Often when you get a mixed feeling then it's definitely not love because love is an emotion which can survive in the long term. You will never have mixed feelings about a person if you truly love him or her. You will always feel the definite yes.
Are you willing to commit and sacrifice? - This is a big determinant of love. You see if you truly love someone you would be more than willing to commit and sacrifice for the relationship. You will be willing to make the necessary adjustments with your life just to be with the person you love. Again if you get doubtful thoughts when you think about commitment then the love isn't strong enough.
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